Coming from a mixed background–half Chinese and half Mexican–my upbringing was a fascinating blend of cultures. Living in a multicultural family meant that our dinners were a delightful fusion of Chinese and Mexican flavors, representing our diverse heritage. Language was a significant aspect for my parents; they emphasized my ability to speak Spanish and Cantonese. Although my fluency in Cantonese waned over time, i was fortunate to maintain my proficiency in Spanish, especially due to my intersections with many Latinx communities.
Growing up in a predominately white community posed challenges, exposing me microaggressions and racism from an early age and continuing into my early adulthood. These hurtful comments often targeted my father, making it difficult to endure. However, I preserved and stood up for myself when necessary. These experiences have shaped me into a resilient individual and a dedicated advocate for my community.
What are some of the traditions that you have kept in your family?
A tradition deeply cherished in my family is the creation of an altar for Dia de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead). This tradition holds immense importance for us as it serves to honor and remember our ancestors and immediate family members. Even though my mother isn’t Mexican, she enthusiastically participates by helping prepare the food to place on our ofrenda and lighting incense. We assemble a small table and adorn it with photographs of our family, encircled by marigolds and other vibrant flowers. This tradition has always held a special place in my heart, fostering a sense of connection and reverence for our loved ones.
What is the most important thing that you have learned about your Hispanic culture?
Among the most valuable qualities embedded in the Latinx culture, perseverance and resilience stand out prominently. Our community places great emphasis on hard work and enduring challenges to reap the rewards, all while sharing these fruits of labor with our family. My father embodied these two traits, as he went from working in the fields of Rialto, California to now working in maintenance at Raytheon.
These traits are crucial for navigating a society deeply rooted in colonialism and capitalism, where determination is key for survival. Instead, I would like to share a profound lesson from my Latinx culture: the significance of being present. Living in a society where hustle culture is dominant, being present allows us to truly connect with our loved ones, savoring each moment. It is in this presence that we foster a sense of community and belonging, enriching our lives in ways that go beyond material accomplishments.